How paraodoxical is it that life becomes one big game of dodge ball and somehow our feelings are prioritized last.

So Here It Goes

You know, it’s always so easy to talk to family and friends until you’re met with the dreadful “That sucks” or my favorite one liner “Damn”. Who knew that word could sound so offensive when you need someone to talk to. 

It’s easy to book therapy until the bill starts competing with other expenses like it’s a competition. 

I started this service as a way to let people feel seen, heard and understood. There’s nothing better than letting the world off your shoulders and someone is there to witness it. Okay, too poetic—there’s nothing better than feeling seen in a world that counts you as another body in the human experience. 

I guess this is the part where I tell you fun facts about me, because I’m a real person who just cooked a meal and put gas in my car—not an ai bot. Sorry saying that never gets old.

Fun Facts That Might Be Password Hints

• I love to make clothes and anything really! I run a fashion brand(It’s sneakily running me though, cheers to no solid  income lol) and although I’m just getting started, I’m having fun exploring and letting my ideas finally have a body to walk in. Besides, I pride myself on being a DIY empress, I just don’t have a fancy platform (Cue the whack comedy drums.

• I’m a writer. Besides this blog where I’m basically your long lost best friend, I did some freelance writing for a wedding magazine last year. Safe to say that not every wedding is the fairy tale dream or the nightmare of Four Weddings (If you know, clink a glass)
• I write songs and poetry in my free time. I’ve been doing this since I was a junior whopper. It’s funny because I remember being in pre-k in…..okay I almost told my age. But I remember one of the first ones that I wrote was about making new friends. How ironic? (Cue Alanis Morisette)
• It’s funny because back in 2019, I found myself being there for others and creating a safe space because life can be tough. Sometimes  it’s okay to be soft, even for like 30 minutes. It sucks being the extra in your own life. Or performing the act of being okay without the Oscar Award. Not even a nomination. 
• I love to travel and not in the boring influencer type of way. There’s been times I’ve booked trips to NYC just to walk around and write or hit up some fabric stores (I’m a fabric-textile junkie okay?).

• I have a tender passion for collecting seashells. This might be a soft way of confessing my past life to water, but at least you know my secret now (Keep it between us). I collect the seashells for spiritual and creative purposes and also because I’m one of those adults with a questionable collection that’s actually aligned.

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  I absolutely love to thrift. I’m a sucker for DIY projects and quirky stuff that absolutely make no sense. Unless you’re a maximalist like me.Right?

Ok before you ask, yes I thrifted a candy machine and turned it into a mail holder, and yes I thrifted mannequin legs for my creative fashion vision okay? One day I’m opening up a thrift store and with nothing but surreal stuff. And aligned clothing in between.

My Confidential Release Is No Longer A Mystery

At this rate, if I share any more fun facts either we’re doing a book series, a movie, or a TV show that gets the green light to start shooting season one . Bring back theme songs please. I want one with a funky beat that introduces us to the pilot. It’s only right.

I hope to see you soon my friend. No judgment, no shame, no “Damn”, no “That sucks”. Just listening, support, advice, perspective, or anything else under the sun. 

Whew, I almost said “And cut!”. This was like a conducive commercial. 

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